I learned to love by failing
for more than thirty years:
My efforts unavailing
Persisted through my fears.
I learned to love by losing,
By giving up the ground;
I learned to love by choosing
To keep what I have found.
I learned to love by staying
When hope for love was lost;
I learned to love by praying
And counting up the cost.
I learned to love by seeing
That love is more than life.
I learned to love by being
A husband to my wife.
